Lying friend (Anna, Age 9)

Ep. 20 – Anna, Age 9: Lying friend | Why might a friend not tell you the truth?

Anna is upset about a friend lying to her. What should she do?

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(Obviously, this is not psychotherapy, and it’s not for emergency situations.)

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DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

- Have you ever caught a friend in a lie? How did you feel? Why do you think the friend lied to you? How did it affect your friendship?

- Have you ever told a lie to a friend? What got in the way of you telling the truth? Did your friend ever find out the truth? What happened? 

- Why do you think Dr. Friendtastic suggested NOT calling a friend a liar even if they did tell a lie? What’s the difference between telling a lie and being a liar? How is a friend likely to react to being called a liar?

- Why do you think Dr. Friendtastic focuses on what Anna could do instead of what her friend did wrong?

- How could you make it easy for a friend to tell you the truth? What responses might make it harder for a friend to tell the truth?

Books mentioned in the podcast:

Growing Friendships: A Kids' Guide to making and Keeping Friends https://eileenkennedymoore.com/child-development-books/growing-friendships/

Growing Feelings: A Kids' Guide to Dealing with Emotions about Friends and Other Kids https://eileenkennedymoore.com/child-development-books/growing-feelings/

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