

Why SMART Goals Are Failing You | Caroline Adams Miller on the Science of Big Goals
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What if we’ve been taught to set goals the wrong way all along?
In this episode, I sit down with Caroline Adams Miller, a pioneering expert in positive psychology and bestselling author of Big Goals.
Caroline’s work has transformed how the world approaches goal setting—from vague wishes to science-backed strategies that actually work.
She’s coached leaders, elite athletes, and mission-driven humans on how to set meaningful, gutsy goals that change lives—and in this conversation, she shares her full framework.
Here’s what we cover:
- Why SMART goals are outdated and what to use instead
- How to get into a state of joy and gratitude before setting big goals
- The full breakdown of Caroline’s BRIDGE method for goal achievement
- How to build grit (and why alcohol may be getting in your way)
- What most people get wrong when making high-stakes decisions
- Why women need to lift each other more than ever—and how men can help
If you're ready to ditch playing small and start building a life of purpose, this episode will give you the tools—and mindset—to get there.
- You can connect with Caroline here - https://www.carolinemiller.com
- You can Purchase your copy of Big Goals here - https://biggoalsbook.com
- You can take the VIA Strength test here - https://www.viacharacter.org
- If you’re interested in having me deliver a keynote or workshop for your team contact Caroline at caroline@jjlaughlin.com
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James Laughlin is a High Performance Leadership Coach, Former 7-Time World Champion, Host of the Lead On Purpose Podcast and an Executive Coach to high performers and leaders. James is based in Christchurch, New Zealand.
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- If you're interested in booking me for a keynote or workshop, contact Caroline at caroline@jjlaughlin.com