Psychology In Seattle Podcast Therapist Breaking Boundaries (2017 Rerun)
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Jul 17, 2025 Dr. Kirk and Rebecca dive into the complexities of therapist-client boundaries, discussing a patron's question about asking a client to buy coffee. They explore how such requests can undermine therapy, create feelings of indebtedness, and reflect countertransference. The conversation shifts to the importance of therapists maintaining professional boundaries, especially in the face of burnout. With real-life stories and insights, they emphasize the need for therapists to work smart, not hard, while encouraging clients to voice their concerns.
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Speak Up When Boundaries Feel Off
- If a therapist's request makes you uncomfortable, tell them directly about your feelings and concerns.
- Use that disclosure as therapeutic material to observe their response and preserve your agency.
Free Time Creates Hidden Obligations
- Extra unpaid favors from therapists create indebtedness that can silence valid anger from clients.
- That indebtedness undermines therapy because clients may hide negative feelings to keep access to extra care.
Ask About Their Next Steps After An Apology
- Expect and appreciate sincere apologies from clinicians but also inquire about follow-up steps.
- Ask whether they will consult or supervise to prevent repetition of the boundary crossing.