FREE CLASS- SPEED ATTRACTION - Understanding Men and Women - Why They See Things Differently Pt 2

Today, Dr. Snyder is going to talk about Understanding Men and Women. He will be discussing why both see things very differently. Stay tuned.

Standout Quotes:

• Everything a human being is looking for, they are projecting through their behaviors, words, and gestures on to the world around them. They're looking for the matches. To the degree that they find a match, they bond, they fall into connection.
• The most important words a person can hear are the ones that just came out of their mouth. Every human being on the planet is looking for itself. To the degree that you match that checklist, the barriers to intimacy drop. And you get more excited, more connected, more aroused, and more pleasure faster.
• Anytime you hear the word “I am,” you are hearing an identity statement. It is a complex equivalence, where “I” and “my job” are the same. It's literally saying, “This is who I am, this is what I do.”

Key Takeaways:

• Human beings are going through the world looking for their match. They are paying attention to their surroundings in hopes of making a connection. They look for the person who matches and connects with them.
• With the echo technique, the person you are talking with will become more connected to you. They cannot stop listening to you because you are matching their checklist. They feel that you really understand them and they will unconsciously pay attention to you for hours.
• You are what you do in most cultures. Therefore, anytime you talk about what you do, you are talking about you at a very deep emotional level. Anything that you identify with controls you. Anything you dis-identify from, you gain control over.

Episode Timeline:

[07:21] The Largest Rhythmic Source of Movement in the Body

[10:58] Primary Language Patterns

[16:07] Complex Equivalency

[21:33] How Partners Communicate with Each Other

[26:31] Dr. Snyder Using the Echo Technique

[30:20] The Three Magic Questions

[34:27] Why Questions should be Softened

[46:48] Communicating Effectively

[51:23] The Problem with Relationships

[54:32] Career and Passion Questions

[01:06:00] The Evaluative Process

[01:09:17] Powerful Memories

[01:20:58] Understanding Women