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Attraction Isn’t Compatibility
- People often fall for attraction and secondary traits that have nothing to do with compatibility.
- Natalie Lu says compatibility requires shared core values and emotional need fulfillment.
Core Values Drive Coexistence
- Core values determine whether two people can coexist harmoniously over time.
- Natalie Lu divides core values into character and directional values that shape compatibility.
Secondary Traits Won’t Save It
- Secondary values like hobbies and appearance add to relationships but don’t override core values.
- Natalie Lu warns that lots of chemistry won’t fix mismatched character or direction.