In this lively discussion, dating advisor Sir InQ shares insights on modern dating dynamics. He tackles why men might ask for nudes too soon, linking it to technology and blurred social norms. InQ emphasizes the importance of discerning between different types of women in online spaces, urging men to respect boundaries. He also suggests that mature men need to elevate their standards rather than viewing all women as sexually available. It's a refreshing perspective on dating etiquette that challenges common missteps.
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Awkward Date Request From An Older Man
Layla described texting a 61-year-old man who asked for nudes then sent a photo of himself erect in tighty whities after days of no reply.
She waffled about how to respond but followed Sir InQ's advice to firmly decline and felt freed afterward.
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Disconnect Firmly When Boundaries Are Crossed
Do not feel obligated to politely explain yourself when a stranger disrespects boundaries; a direct disconnection is fine.
Sir InQ advised a firm, no-nonsense response and Layla reports it felt liberating to follow that approach.
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Online Exposure Erodes Sexual Discernment
Sir InQ argues we lost discernment between sex work/Instagram displays and ordinary women due to constant online exposure.
He says that causes men to ask for nudes prematurely instead of building real connection first.
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So, what do you do when a man goes from “let’s grab dinner” to “send nudes” in under 48 hours? 😅 You bring in a real one—Sir InQ—to break it ALL the way down. This episode is a juicy convo about masculine energy, modern dating missteps, and why not every woman should be approached like she’s running an OnlyFans. I needed a dominant voice to talk me off the ledge of giving this guy a polite exit (why do we do that, ladies?!). Spoiler: I followed Sir InQ’s advice, and it felt so good 😌. If you've ever wondered where the line is between sexy and straight-up disrespectful, this episode is your roadmap 💋.
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