Work On Your Game: Dominate With Mindset, Strategy & Execution #3461: How People Size You Up [Part 1 of 2]
Nov 4, 2025
Discover how men unconsciously size each other up from the moment they enter a room. The concept of presence emerges as the primary gauge, influencing perceptions based on posture and energy. While physical attributes do play a role, they often take a backseat to the confidence displayed through nonverbal cues. Personal anecdotes highlight how clothing choices can shift social dynamics, but ultimately, it’s the energy you project that dictates engagement. Unpack the layers of hierarchy, dominance, and respect in this insightful dive into male interactions.
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Instant Unspoken Hierarchy
- Men size each other up instantly and mostly unconsciously when someone enters a room.
- This unspoken process is about hierarchy, dominance, and respect and determines treatment before words are spoken.
Deliberately Cultivate Presence
- Build and project presence through posture, tone, breathing, and composure to influence how men judge you.
- Adjust visible behaviors intentionally to change others' perceptions and create desired responses.
Front Desk Gatekeeper Example
- Dre describes how front-desk gatekeepers read whether you 'belong' by your walk and energy.
- If you move with certainty they often let you pass without questioning, even if they don't know you.
