Dr Susan James, a nerdy and brainy expert in sex data and history, joins Esme to uncover changing definitions of sex, surprising sex statistics, and the truth behind Bill Clinton's statement. They explore topics like rimming, polyamory, and anal, as well as delve into the historical evolution of sex, society's perception of oral sex, and the practice of initiating boys through erotic love. They also discuss the correlation between education and sexual activities, debunking common misconceptions.
The definition of sex has evolved throughout history, leading to different perceptions and understandings of sexual acts.
Education plays a crucial role in shaping attitudes towards sexuality and sexual behavior, providing access to information, exposure to liberal ideas, and empowerment to explore desires.
Deep dives
The Evolution of Sexuality in History
Throughout history, the definition of sex has evolved and varied, leading to different perceptions and understandings of sexual acts. Ancient Greek philosopher Aristotle believed that things were good if they served their purpose, including sex. However, in the 13th century, Thomas Aquinas changed the definition of sex to only include procreation, labeling oral and anal sex as evil. This influenced views on sexuality and shame that still impact society today. The story of President Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky also highlights the subjective definition of sex. A study from 2014 revealed that even in modern times, a significant percentage of people do not consider oral sex to be sex. These findings showcase how societal attitudes towards sex continue to shape our understanding and perceptions.
Education and Sexual Empowerment
Education plays a crucial role in shaping attitudes towards sexuality and sexual behavior. Studies have shown that individuals with higher levels of education are more likely to identify as LGBTQ+ and engage in various sexual activities. Education provides individuals with access to information, exposure to more liberal ideas, and the confidence to explore their sexuality. With the rise of the internet and social media, access to information and diverse perspectives has further increased. Additionally, education is closely linked to sexual empowerment, allowing individuals to challenge traditional gender norms, explore their desires, and advocate for their own pleasure.
Fluidity and Changing Identities
The understanding of sexual identities and preferences has become more fluid in modern society. People now have the freedom to explore and identify in different ways, going beyond traditional categories. Surveys have shown that a significant number of individuals identify outside of the heterosexual label, using terms such as demisexual, pansexual, omnisexual, and many more. The recognition and acceptance of diverse identities have increased, highlighting the complexity and individuality of human sexuality. This fluidity challenges the notion that sexual identities and preferences are fixed, and emphasizes the importance of allowing individuals to define and express themselves authentically.
The Impact of Sex Literacy and Data
Sex literacy, fueled by access to information through education, internet, and social media, has had a profound impact on society's understanding of sexuality. The availability of data and research on sexual behavior has helped debunk myths, challenge outdated beliefs, and create more inclusive and comprehensive perspectives. Research studies, including national surveys, contribute to the body of knowledge around sexuality, enabling individuals to better understand themselves and feel empowered in their sexual experiences. The role of data in promoting a sex-positive and sex-literate society cannot be underestimated, as it allows for informed conversations and evidence-based education on diverse sexual preferences and practices.
The World is Full of Sex Data and this week, for a special 'Sextistics' episode, Esme is joined by her equally nerdy (and brainy) mum - Dr Susan James. They unpack the changing definitions of sex over history, some very surprising sex statistics and why former US President Bill Clinton wasn't lying when he said "I did not have sexual relations with that woman".
