Content Warnings: This episode discusses rape, sexual assault, purity culture, childhood sexual harm, and childbirth trauma. Listener discretion is advised.

In this deeply moving and thought-provoking conversation, EDJ is joined by theologian and author Danielle Tumminio Hansen to explore how our language, theology, and justice systems often fail survivors of sexual harm. Drawing from her groundbreaking book Speaking of Rape, Danielle discusses the need to reframe how we talk about rape, the myths of the "perfect victim" and the "obvious perpetrator," and the damaging intersections between purity culture and rape culture.

This episode also tackles the importance of sex education, why impact matters more than intent, how restorative justice offers an alternative to punishment-based systems, and what it means to raise children with justice and empathy in mind. Danielle shares from her own story with remarkable vulnerability, offering theological, psychological, and cultural insight that's both challenging and deeply hopeful.

Topics Discussed:

Why our words around sexual harm often fall short
The myths of the "perfect victim" and "clear perpetrator"
How purity culture contributes to victim-blaming
Redefining rape through agency, power, and desire
The role of sex education in prevention
Restorative justice vs. retributive justice
Why survivors' stories reshape culture
Teaching justice through parenting
Autonomy, agency, and interdependence
Understanding impact over intent

Resources Mentioned:

Speaking of Rape by Danielle Tumminio Hansen
South of Forgiveness by Thordis Elva & Tom Stranger
Know My Name by Chanel Miller
Works by theologian Sally McFague and philosopher Linda Alcoff
Research on contact theory and restorative justice

🇦🇺 Australia

1800RESPECT Australia's national sexual assault, domestic, and family violence helpline.
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State-Based Services
- Victoria: Sexual Assault Crisis Line – 1800 806 292 (5 pm–9 am weekdays; 24/7 on weekends)
- Queensland: Sexual Assault Helpline – 1800 010 120 (7:30 am–11:30 pm daily)
- Western Australia: Sexual Assault Resource Centre – 1800 199 888 (24/7)
- South Australia: Yarrow Place – 1800 817 421
- Tasmania: Sexual Assault Support Service – 1800 697 877
- Northern Territory: Sexual Assault Referral Centres – 08 8922 6472 (Darwin)
- Australian Capital Territory: Canberra Rape Crisis Centre – 02 6247 2525
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🇺🇸 United States

RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) Operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline.
Other National Helplines
- Love Is Respect: For teens and young adults experiencing dating violence.
  - 📞 Call: 1-866-331-9474
  - 💬 Text: Text "LOVEIS" to 22522
  - 💬 Online chat: loveisrespect.org
- National Domestic Violence Hotline: For domestic violence support.
  - 📞 Call: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
  - 💬 Text: Text "START" to 88788
  - 💬 Online chat: thehotline.org
- Crisis Text Line: For general crisis support.
  - 💬 Text: Text "HOME" to 741741

🇬🇧 United Kingdom

Rape Crisis England & Wales Provides the 24/7 Rape & Sexual Abuse Support Line.
- 📞 Call: 0808 500 2222
- 💬 Online chat: rapecrisis.org.uk
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- Samaritans: Emotional support for anyone in distress.
  - 📞 Call: 116 123
  - 💬 Online chat: samaritans.org
- Childline: For individuals under 19.
  - 📞 Call: 0800 1111
  - 💬 Online chat: childline.org.uk
- The Survivors Trust: For survivors of sexual violence.
  - 📞 Call: 0808 801 0818
  - 💬 Text: 07860 022 956
  - 💬 Online chat: thesurvivorstrust.org

🇨🇦 Canada

Sexual Violence Helpline (Canada) Provides confidential support and referrals.
- 📞 Call: 1-888-933-9007
- 💬 Online chat: sexualviolencehelpline.ca
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- Kids Help Phone: For individuals aged 5–29.
  - 📞 Call: 1-800-668-6868
  - 💬 Text: Text "CONNECT" to 686868
  - 💬 Online chat: kidshelpphone.ca
- Trans Lifeline: For transgender and gender-diverse individuals.
  - 📞 Call: 1-877-330-6366
  - 💬 Online chat: translifeline.org
- Victim Connect: For general victim support.
  - 📞 Call: 1-855-484-2846
  - 💬 Online chat: victimconnect.org

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