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What Magnificence

WM 8 - Firefighters and Managers

Jan 27, 2022
Discover how internal facets shaped by past traumas act as both protectors and hindrances to personal growth. Explore Disney films like 'Inside Out' and 'Soul' as reflections of our emotions and parts work. Learn about the emotional triggers that arise during the holidays, influenced by family dynamics, and hear personal anecdotes of grief and nostalgia. Finally, delve into the roles of intellectual managers and emotional firefighters in navigating and embracing personal emotions for genuine healing.
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  • Understanding the concept of 'parts work' reveals how exiles, managers, and firefighters interact to influence emotional responses and healing.
  • Cultural conditioning affects emotional expression, highlighting the disconnect between true feelings and socially acceptable norms, impacting personal growth.

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Understanding Parts of Self

The concept of 'parts work' explores the internal divisions within an individual, allowing them to understand how different aspects of their personality interact with each other. These parts can be classified into three categories: exiles, managers, and firefighters. Exiles hold vulnerability and trauma from the past, while managers help navigate daily life by moderating emotional responses. Firefighters act in crisis situations, often resorting to extreme measures like anger or addiction to cover up feelings of discomfort linked to these exiled parts.

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