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Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 2

Jul 6, 2023
William Costello, a behavioral expert and PhD student, explores the modern male dating landscape. He discusses the COVID-19 pandemic's impact on dating behaviors, contrasting men's newfound risk-taking with women's heightened caution. Delving into the incel community, he reveals their struggles and coping mechanisms while considering AI as a tool for healthily navigating dating. The conversation highlights the societal shifts reshaping relationships, alongside the potential of technology to improve social understanding and engagement.
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Quick takeaways

  • COVID-19 impacts dating behaviors differently for men and women, highlighting risk-taking vs. risk aversion.
  • Incels lack coping mechanisms and turn to online victimhood identity instead of engaging in the dating market.

Deep dives

The Importance of Cross-Sex Mind Reading

Educating both sexes on understanding each other's perspectives can challenge adversarial views. In the context of in-self phenomenon, men may struggle to empathize with women's experiences, assuming 'some' is always better than 'none' for women. This approach doesn't align with female psychology, highlighting the need for accurate cross-sex mind reading.

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