The Experience of Being a Surrogate and the Compensatory Nature of the Process

Being a surrogate is a fulfilling and meaningful experience that allows individuals to help intended parents fulfill their dreams of having children. Surrogacy in the United States is a highly regulated process that involves rigorous medical and psychological clearance. Experienced surrogates are often compensated more than first-time surrogates. The compensation is typically a base amount that starts in the second trimester of pregnancy. Surrogates have negotiating power and can determine their compensation based on their own preferences and market demand. It is important to note that surrogacy is only legal and accessible for people of privilege due to the high cost and the exclusion of those on government aid. While financial compensation is appreciated, surrogates do not feel the same level of attachment to the baby as they do to their own children, emphasizing the importance of returning the baby to the intended parents.