Sons of Patriarchy

Christ Church Santa Clarita (Absolutely CHILLING Story)

Jan 29, 2026
Ray Davis, a retired pastor and trauma-informed counselor, offers professional critique. A former deacon who tried to protect children shares his disillusionment. An anonymous son describes church culture and being expelled. An anonymous survivor recounts prolonged domestic abuse and a DCFS investigation. They discuss recorded abuse, leadership denial, safety-team failures, and a culture that prized obedience over protection.
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ANECDOTE

Counseling That Pressured Staying Together

  • Anonymous woman recounted weekly counseling where the pastor pressured her to keep the marriage despite ongoing abuse.
  • She recorded explosive incidents and felt the church normalized the abuse rather than protecting her.
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Recorded Threats, Ignored By Church

  • The episode includes raw audio of the ex-husband verbally threatening and abusing the survivor, captured on recording.
  • The woman later described the church ignored the severity of these recorded threats and did not call police.
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Authorities Intervened; Church Minimized Risks

  • After the 911 call the sheriff and DCFS investigated, and the survivor obtained a restraining order protecting her child.
  • The church leadership minimized DCFS advice and prioritized preserving the marriage and congregation unity.
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