Intelligence Squared The Power of Good Conversation, with Jefferson Fisher (Part Two)
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Jun 15, 2025 
Jefferson Fisher, a trial lawyer turned communication expert with a global following, shares insightful strategies for effective conversation. He discusses managing disrespect in dialogues and highlights the importance of pauses for active listening. Fisher delves into the complexities of silence and ghosting, urging self-awareness in relationships. He also addresses navigating interruptions and dishonesty with composure, providing practical tips for clearer communication and fostering healthier connections in both personal and professional spheres.
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Handling Disrespect With Control
- When someone disrespects you, use silence for 5-7 seconds to regain control.
- Then ask them to repeat their comment and question their intent to expose their behavior.
When Ghosting Is Appropriate
- Ghosting can be a healthy boundary when dealing with toxic people.
- Communicate if you need time to process, or don't respond if the relationship is harmful.
Conversation Transforms Life
- Good conversation skills can transform your life more than external changes.
- Communication underpins relationships, business, and personal satisfaction.
