Dating Intentionally 119. What to pay attention to in the honeymoon phase w/ Jordan Dann
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Nov 5, 2024 In this engaging discussion, guest Jordan Dann, a nationally certified psychoanalyst and relationship expert, shares her insights on the honeymoon phase of relationships and navigating relationship dynamics. She addresses common questions about the duration of this phase, the nature of unsolvable relationship issues, and how to balance individual desires with mutual needs. Jordan emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, effective communication, and emotional vulnerability while also reflecting on lessons from reality TV like Love Is Blind.
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Honeymoon Phase Dynamics
- The honeymoon phase, or romantic stage, lasts 6-9 months, marked by projection and idealization.
- Partners project fantasies of completion and see each other as perfect, often ignoring red flags.
Navigating the Honeymoon Phase
- Acknowledge the honeymoon phase's chemical influence and enjoy the experience.
- Stay grounded by recognizing projections and idealizations, but don't resist the pleasurable feelings.
Slow Down Dating
- Slow down the dating process to see your partner as a whole person.
- Allow time for imperfections and humanness to emerge on both sides.