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Ben's Stepdad Adjustment
- Ben Lee became a stepdad to a 4-year-old stepdaughter and navigated that unique role without feeling the need to instantly replace her dad.
- He shared a funny moment of realizing his new authority when a 10-year-old asked him for permission to turn off a light.
Autonomy Over Control
- Ben observed that the middle-class Australian parenting he grew up with was emotionally distant and constrained by societal norms.
- He values the current view that children are autonomous beings with personalities to be known, not just shaped.
Bohemian Parenting Influence
- Ben's wife grew up in a bohemian, boundaryless environment, influencing her parenting style marked by openness and active listening.
- She prefers listening and being accepted in her children's social circles rather than doing all the talking as many parents do.