It can apply to women too!
What are the most important mistakes when approaching attractive person?
You don't need to be cool and amazing to meet them.
Being yourself is well enough, but there are some things that work against us in that context.
I have discussed them here, so listen in!
(01:03) Putting Girl on a Pedestal
(04:15) Good-looking Girls Have a Really Hard Time
(06:23) Stop Yourself From Trying to Impress
(08:22) The Problem of Needy, Nasty Vibes
(10:54) Your State Transmits & Approach Avoidance
(12:29) Try to Make It Simple (Being Centered and Polite)
(15:56) Get Your Emotional State in Order Before You Approach
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