Kyle Dillon Hertz (The Lookback Window) on Overcoming Trauma and Reclaiming Joy
Aug 8, 2023
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Kyle Dillon Hertz, author of The Lookback Window, discusses seeking justice, the nuance of fact vs. fiction in writing, the queerness of the video game Fortnite, trauma treatment, and the power of anger in overcoming trauma.
Open dialogue and normalization of discussions around sexual assault are crucial for providing support and solidarity for survivors.
Reflecting on one's past and considering the perspective of your childhood self is a powerful tool in understanding personal growth and self-discovery.
Deep dives
The look back window: A reflection on trauma and justice
The podcast episode features an interview with Kyle Dylan Hertz, author of the book 'The Look Back Window.' The book explores the protagonist's journey in the wake of the New York Child Victims Act, which allows victims of childhood sexual assault to sue their abusers within a year. Hertz discusses his personal experiences with trauma and shares insights into the writing process. The book delves into themes of justice, reflection, and the complexities of navigating trauma. Hertz emphasizes the importance of honesty and not shying away from difficult conversations surrounding sexual assault.
The struggle to break the stigma of sexual assault
The episode delves into the stigma and taboos surrounding sexual assault, particularly within the LGBTQ+ community. Hertz opens up about his personal experiences and the challenges of discussing sexual assault as a queer person. The conversation touches on the need for open dialogue and normalization of discussions around assault in order to provide support and solidarity for survivors.
The power of reflecting on childhood experiences
The podcast explores the process of reflecting on childhood experiences and trauma. Hertz discusses the concept of the inner child and the role it plays in shaping a person's perspective and healing journey. Reflecting on one's past and considering the perspective of your childhood self is a powerful tool in understanding personal growth and self-discovery.
Breaking through societal norms and assumptions
The episode challenges societal norms and assumptions about who can be a victim of sexual assault. Hertz highlights the importance of eradicating stereotypes and recognizing that anyone, regardless of their background or appearance, can experience assault. The conversation emphasizes the need for empathy, understanding, and support for survivors of sexual assault, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, or race.
CW: This episode includes sexually explicit content as well as conversations about sexual abuse and trauma. If you or anyone you know needs resources for sexual violence, please visit rainn.org.
Jason and Brett talk to Kyle Dillon Hertz (The Lookback Window) about seeking justice, the nuance of fact vs. fiction in writing, and the queerness of the video game Fortnite.
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