Psychology In Seattle Podcast Ned & Ariel Talk (Try Guys Drama)
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Sep 29, 2025 Ned Fulmer, a former member of the Try Guys and content creator, joins the conversation following his public admission of infidelity. He candidly discusses his regret and the complexities surrounding his marriage with Ariel. The couple shares their journey through the emotional fallout, including Ariel's shock at discovering the affair and her ongoing struggles with forgiveness. They explore accountability, the nature of their relationship, and the importance of therapy for healing. Ned also reflects on his future plans within the content creation landscape.
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Public Apologies Are Performances
- Public apologies can be sincere yet still be shaped by PR incentives and performance pressures.
- Kirk notes we should assess content and behavior over time, not just a one-take statement.
What Makes An Immediate Apology Work
- A good immediate apology acknowledges the act, the harm, and responsibility without excuses.
- Kirk graded Ned's apology around a B− based on those core components.
Traumatic Discovery Can Cause PTSD
- Kirk shares a clinical case where discovering infidelity triggered PTSD symptoms for a client.
- He used exposure therapy on the discovery moment and the PTSD resolved.