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58. What’s So Gratifying About Gossip?

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Jan 25, 2026
They unpack why reading celebrity gossip feels so satisfying and what celebrity stories signal socially. They debate whether gossip evolved to transmit social norms and the ethical harms it creates. They compare small talk with deeper conversation and explore how brief chit-chat builds relationships, varies by culture, and can be shaped to feel more meaningful.
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ANECDOTE

Us Weekly As A Regular Habit

  • Angela Duckworth reads Us Weekly cover to cover and enjoys the pictures and recurring features.
  • She feels a para-social familiarity with celebrities despite acknowledging costs like paparazzi intrusions.
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Gossip As Social Learning

  • Evolutionary psychologists argue gossip transmits valuable social information about alliances and threats.
  • Roy Baumeister's work suggests gossip teaches social norms through narrative examples about public figures.
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Pleasure Versus Harm Of Gossip

  • Gossip can be pleasurable yet harmful because it often targets individuals who bear the costs.
  • Angela feels guilty consuming tabloid content because paparazzi intrusion hurts celebrities.
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