#053 Gabor Maté - Damaged Leaders Rule An Addicted World!
Nov 10, 2018
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Dr. Gabor Maté, addiction specialist, discusses trauma's impact on politicians, reframing human development through addiction, and coping mechanisms for damaged individuals. They explore the limitations of 12-step programs, neuroscience of enlightenment, inherited trauma, legacy of Barack Obama, addictive nature of national identity, transformative power of love, childhood experiences shaping behavior, consequences of societal disconnection, decriminalization of drugs, and gaming addiction.
Addiction is not limited to drugs but can involve various behaviors like shopping, sex, or work, and understanding the underlying trauma that drives addiction is crucial.
The 12-step program has limitations in addressing addiction because it fails to incorporate trauma work, and integrating trauma work can better support individuals on their recovery journey.
Trauma plays a significant role in shaping individuals and society, and addressing trauma at both the individual and societal levels is essential for true change and revolution.
Deep dives
The Impact of Childhood Trauma on Addiction
Addiction specialist Gabor Maté explains that addiction is a complex process manifested in any behavior where a person finds temporary pleasure or relief, craves it, suffers negative consequences, and cannot give it up. Maté emphasizes that addiction is not limited to drugs but can involve various behaviors like shopping, sex, or work. He highlights the importance of understanding the underlying trauma that drives addiction and acknowledges that trauma plays a significant role in shaping individuals and society. Maté argues that many people in positions of power, including politicians, are highly traumatized individuals, and addressing trauma is crucial in finding solutions for addiction and mental health issues in our society.
The Limitations of the 12-Step Program
Maté discusses the efficacy of the 12-step program in addressing addiction and shares his critique of its limitations. While he acknowledges the positive aspects of the program, such as surrendering to a higher power and living a spiritually informed life, he emphasizes the program's failure to incorporate trauma work. Maté believes that trauma is a key factor in addiction and that the 12-step program's focus on addiction's end consequences without addressing trauma's root cause limits its potential effectiveness. He suggests that a more flexible approach that integrates trauma work can better support individuals in their recovery journey.
The Traumatized Nature of Society
Maté discusses the concept of an addicted society, highlighting how our society is built on creating artificial needs and causing widespread trauma. He argues that consumerism, fueled by addictions and artificial desires, has driven the destruction of the environment and perpetuated a system that thrives on suffering. Maté points out that trauma is passed down through generations, and societal structures often sustain and perpetuate trauma instead of addressing it. He stresses the importance of recognizing trauma as a societal issue and implementing changes that prioritize genuine human needs and well-being.
The Role of Trauma in Power Structures
Maté explores how trauma impacts individuals in positions of power and how these traumatized individuals shape power structures and systems. He offers critical insights into figures like Barack Obama, Hillary Clinton, Donald Trump, and Margaret Thatcher, asserting that trauma influences their behavior and decision-making. Maté argues that understanding the traumatic experiences of those in power can reveal the hidden aspects of society that perpetuate exploitation, inequality, and systemic trauma. He suggests that true change and revolution can only occur when trauma is acknowledged and addressed at the individual and societal levels.
The Importance of Recognizing Our Common Humanity
The speaker highlights the importance of understanding our common humanity and the dangers of prioritizing nationality and ideologies that uphold the status quo. They emphasize that recognizing and prioritizing our shared humanity would lead to positive changes in society and the world.
Attachment-Based Parenting and the Impact of Peer Influence
The podcast discusses the importance of attachment-based parenting and the negative effects of peer influence. The speaker argues that children need strong connections with adults and that the loss of adult influence in children's lives leads to prolonged immaturity, addiction, and mental illness. They assert that society should acknowledge the need for cohesive units and embrace practices that prioritize compassion and understanding.
Dr. Gabor Maté a renowned specialist in addiction, childhood trauma and stress joins me on the podcast today. We discuss the many forms addiction can take, how we can cope as damaged people in the world and are we being ruled by traumatised politicians? Gabor has a very loving, optimistic and benevolent worldview that you will hopefully benefit from listening to in this episode.
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