The Jordan Harbinger Show 885: No Need to Be Chummy with a Grandad So Scummy | Feedback Friday
Aug 25, 2023
This week, the hosts tackle heavy family dilemmas, including whether to cut ties with a grandfather accused of horrific crimes. They discuss the emotional turmoil involved in forgiving family members while emphasizing the importance of boundaries and accountability. A listener shares their journey of sobriety and artistic success amidst mental health challenges, and they explore the complexities of a father-son relationship marred by ethical issues. Practical advice on navigating toxic workplaces rounds out the discussions.
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Grandfather's Abuse
- A grandfather's history of sexual abuse, including molestation and other predatory behaviors, comes to light.
- Multiple family members, including granddaughters and a great-granddaughter, have come forward with their own experiences of abuse.
Family Reactions to Abuse
- Keeping abuse secret protects the abuser and enables further harm, like a hidden hole in a vacant lot.
- The family's varied reactions to the abuse (denial, forgiveness, enabling) are common in such situations, making it complex.
Dealing with Abusers
- You are not obligated to maintain a relationship with an abuser, even if others choose to do so.
- Respect others' choices regarding the abuser but prioritize your safety and well-being.