In this special live-recorded episode of Therapy Works, we explore the often unspoken patterns that shape our families — and ourselves.

Whether you're navigating sibling tensions, generational expectations, or a long-standing rupture with a parent, this conversation offers powerful insight into how family systems operate, why we fall into certain roles, and how healing truly begins.

Note: As this was recorded live, the audio isn’t perfect — but the rawness adds to the realness!

You’ll hear real-life therapy sessions unfold in real time — including a moving segment on estrangement — revealing just how much our early environments impact our adult relationships, self-worth, and sense of belonging.

What we explore in this episode:

Why understanding the family system matters more than focusing on one person’s behaviour
How unresolved trauma can silently pass through generations
What happens when a family faces unexpected change
The difference between rupture and repair — and why both are inevitable
Why communication breaks down, and how to rebuild it with clarity and compassion
How to navigate the tension between love, resentment, and loyalty

With stories, therapeutic insight, and deeply human moments, this episode is for anyone trying to make sense of where they come from — and how to break free from cycles that no longer serve them.

Highlights:
01:57 – How families react to change
03:58 – Parenting under pressure
05:33 – Tools for breaking family patterns
21:31 – Live therapy: Joe’s estrangement story
36:17 – How revelations shape identity
43:15 – Compassion vs. resentment: finding the balance
48:32 – Q&A and closing reflections

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