
Follow the Gradient Behind the Mic: What We Have Learned from 50+ interviews with Melanie Gabriel & Christian Woese
What do you keep when a year of founder advice contradicts itself? What actually sticks once the playbooks cancel each other out and you are left with your own judgment?
Follow the Gradient closes out the year with a reflective episode from hosts Melanie Gabriel and Christian Woese, drawing on dozens of conversations with founders, operators, and investors across Europe . Instead of a guest interview, this episode turns the lens inward, unpacking what truly held up across a full year of building, scaling, and questioning received wisdom.
The conversation surfaces how founders actually form convictions when advice is biased, context is messy, and no clean answers exist. It is less about what to do next and more about how to think when certainty is unavailable.
We talk about:
Why most founder advice is shaped by survival bias and how to tell when it does not apply to your company
Thinking internationally from day one without losing focus on a home market that still needs to work
Saying no as a growth skill and why focus becomes harder as opportunities increase
Introspection as an underrated founder capability that quietly compounds over time
Why venture capital is often treated as default advice despite fitting only narrow business models
How founders actually protect sanity through routines, relationships, and deliberate reflection
This episode resists formulas. It treats building a company as a sequence of judgment calls rather than a checklist, shaped by context, timing, and personal limits more than by frameworks.
Our biggest takeaways, including Melanie and Christian’s view on where founders most often mistake confidence for clarity:
https://followthegradient.io/p/what-we-learned-from-interviewing-50-plus-guests
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🎙 Follow the Gradient: conversations about building a business from Europe while staying sane.
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00:00 Introduction
01:10 Reflecting on a year of conversations and learning
02:25 Why we started Follow the Gradient
05:34 Our personal paths into entrepreneurship
10:41 Thinking international from day one in Europe
13:38 Why saying no is a growth skill
14:55 Introspection as an underrated founder skill
18:34 When venture capital is the wrong default
20:15 Trusting intuition over generic startup advice
21:55 How founders can work with academia
24:02 Defining success beyond titles and outcomes
28:38 How we convince busy guests to join
31:53 Books and thinkers that shaped our thinking
36:44 Habits that help founders stay sane
