This is Love Valentine
Oct 16, 2024
Valentine Judge, known for her warmth and love of beautiful things, shares a poignant story about her final days as recounted by her daughter, Phoebe. The conversation navigates the emotional journey of watching a loved one face terminal illness, intertwining grief with treasured family memories. They explore the profound connections forged during this time, filled with humor and nostalgia. The episode also celebrates love's enduring power amidst loss, reflecting on the bittersweet nature of family bonds.
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Diagnosis Interrupts A Routine Career Day
- Phoebe Judge learned her mother had pancreatic cancer minutes before a studio interview and flew to Massachusetts two days later.
- That sudden pivot framed her priorities and began the months she recorded many visits with Valentine Judge.
Small Rituals Help Manage Uncertainty
- Phoebe weighed daily check-ins and tour commitments while knowing any call could change everything.
- She established a routine of calling her mother every day at 4:30 to monitor changes and stay connected.
Making A Show Accessible And Memorable
- Phoebe brought her mother to a Boston show and arranged wheelchair access and backstage passes so Valentine could watch like royalty.
- Valentine stood up to applaud and insisted Phoebe finish the tour before returning home.