Ep. 121: Kegan's Theory of Adult Development, feat. David Zeitler

This week, Steve is joined by psychotherapist and executive coach David Zeitler.  David explains his process for coaching as he learned under Robert Kegan.  We discuss Robert Kegan's framework for adult development, the self-authoring mindset, world-class performance, what makes someone coachable, what makes a good coach, resistance to help, the difference between coaches/mentors/advisors, and finding a coach.

David Zeitler's website:
Zeitler Executive Dynamix
https://mindfulness.coach/

David's book recommendation:
In Over Our Heads, by Robert Kegan
https://www.amazon.com/Over-Our-Heads-Mental-Demands/dp/0674445880

David's recommendation for finding coaches like him:
Minds at Work: Change Leadership Coaching for Immunity to Change
https://mindsatwork.com/


Mental models discussed in this episode:

• Systematic Abandonment
  https://bjjmentalmodels.com/systematic-abandonment/
  
  
• Feedback Loop
  https://bjjmentalmodels.com/feedback-loop/
  
  
• Investing in Loss
  https://bjjmentalmodels.com/investing-in-loss/
  
  
• Flow
  https://bjjmentalmodels.com/flow/
  
  
• Incremental Learning
  https://bjjmentalmodels.com/incremental-learning/
  
  
• Shuhari
  https://bjjmentalmodels.com/shuhari/
  
  
• First Principles
  https://bjjmentalmodels.com/first-principles/
  
  
• The Golden Rule
  https://bjjmentalmodels.com/golden-rule/
  
  
• Respect People, Not Positions
  https://bjjmentalmodels.com/respect-people-not-positions/
  
  
• The 80/20 Rule
  https://bjjmentalmodels.com/80-20-rule/

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