390: Questions About Toys, Finding Places, and Decluttering
Oct 26, 2023
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Learn how to effectively declutter toys with children, involving them in the decision-making process. Discover how to create a home for items without a place and trust your instincts when searching for things. The podcast also explores organizing based on natural search methods.
Involve your child in the toy decluttering process using the five-step method to help them make decisions and keep their space organized.
When decluttering, focus on finding a designated home for items by considering where you would naturally look for them first, even if it may change in the future.
Deep dives
Starting the Toy Decluttering Process
When decluttering toys, involve your child in the process by using the five-step decluttering process with them. Begin by identifying trash and letting them throw it away. Then, move on to items that have an established home elsewhere in the house. Let your child put their favorite toys in their designated space first. If a container is full, let them choose which toy to remove to make room for new ones. This process helps them make decisions and keeps their space organized.
Creating a Home for Items without a Place
When decluttering, focus on items that don't have a designated place in your home. Determine their home by asking yourself, 'If I needed this item, where would I look for it first?' Resist the urge to get creative or overthink. Instead, trust your instincts and place the item in the spot where you would naturally look for it. If you later find a better spot, make the necessary adjustments. The goal is to establish a home for everything, even if it may change in the future.
Managing Future Home Items
To declutter items you will need for a future home, create a container or designated space for them in your current living situation. This can be a section of your closet or any defined area. Decide which items are essential for your future home and keep them in this space. Prioritize the items you truly need and enjoy, and be mindful of not letting the collection grow too large. By having a defined space, you'll be able to see what you have and make informed decisions about what to keep.
I'm answering a few questions that were asked over at AskDanaKWhite.com.
Question 1: My question is on the subject of toys. How do I go about starting (outside of your normal questions)? Like where do I start? My son is 3. Do I pick what to keep or does he? (We have tons of Hot Wheels, monster trucks, and small tractors.) How do I decide what to keep/donate? Is there a limit to how many of each?! HELP! Thank you!
Question 2: I am just starting my decluttering adventure. How do I create a home for items that I don't already have a place for?
Question 3: What do you do with items that you know you would have (Q2) but are not sure where you would look for that item? My "look for first" place changes. What if you haven't had a look for this item first space yet?
Part 2 of this question: What do you do for hope chest and heirloom items? I am saving for a home of my own. I have items that I would need for my future home. Right now I am living with a roommate and using her stuff (per her request as she owns the place that I am living). I have some of the same items i.e. dishes, furniture that I needed with different roommates and apartments in the past. When I have my own place will need these items again. How do I declutter items that I will still need when I'm wanting to declutter what I have and make it more manageable?