
RVVL | David Butler permission to care
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Jan 20, 2026 Join a lively conversation about the power of community and support, highlighted by the inspiring story of a 100-year-old athlete who thrived on encouragement. Discover the challenges of practicing empathy and how intentional kindness fosters belonging. The hosts delve into the balance of grace and truth, urging listeners to uplift one another regardless of circumstances. Reflect on the importance of authentic relationships and the role of vulnerability in faith communities. It's all about creating a culture of care and understanding!
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100-Year-Old Finish Sparks Celebration
- Orville, a 100-year-old competitor, finished laps well behind others but was celebrated by the entire stadium as he crossed the line.
- Stephan and David use this story to model the church cheering members who struggle regardless of pace.
Start With What You Can Agree With
- Validating any good in someone's viewpoint quickly lowers defenses and softens conflict.
- Stephan frames this as seeking virtuous or praiseworthy elements first in conversations.
Guru And The Scorpion Story
- David tells a story about a guru who repeatedly rescues a scorpion despite being stung, illustrating selfless duty.
- He uses the tale to argue people should help others regardless of how those others behave.



