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The Jordan Harbinger Show

942: Ken Adams | The Confusing Dynamics of Covert Incest

Jan 16, 2024
01:04:47
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Dr. Ken Adams, an expert in enmeshment and its impact on mental health and relationships, joins the show to discuss emotional enmeshment and covert incest. They explore how enmeshment shapes future relationships, the connection between enmeshment and abuse, and how to spot enmeshment for healing. The podcast also covers the dynamics of covert incest, including suffocation, sexualization, control, and the impact on self and relationships.
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Quick takeaways

  • Emotional enmeshment can have long-lasting effects on various aspects of life, including relationships and decision-making.
  • Recovering from emotional enmeshment requires internal shifts, self-awareness, and establishing boundaries.

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Recognizing the Signs of Emotional Enmeshment

Emotional enmeshment is an unhealthy relationship between a parent and child, where the child becomes a surrogate partner. It is different from normal closeness and can involve inappropriate boundaries and a transactional form of love. Signs of emotional enmeshment include oversharing of intimate details, discussing romantic or sexual topics with the child, and the child feeling like a sexualized boyfriend or girlfriend to the parent. This phenomenon is more common than people realize, and becoming aware of these signs can help individuals identify if they have experienced emotional enmeshment in their own lives.

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