With the changing dynamics of society, the traditional definition of masculinity is being redefined, and there is a growing need for men to develop new skills and behaviors to thrive in today's world.

In this episode, we will explore actionable steps that men can take to develop these traits, enhance their personal growth, and succeed in both their personal and professional lives. Join us as we dive into this fascinating topic and discover how you can develop modern, high-value, masculine traits.

Kristal DeSantis is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with specializations in trauma, sex therapy, couples, and men's mental health issues. Creator of the STRONG Relationship Therapy Model of trauma-informed couples therapy. Certified clinical trauma professional with training in EMDR, complex PTSD, and relational trauma in first responders, LEOs, and veterans.

Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website.

In this episode

5:32 Kristal Desantis’ background and interest in working with men, emphasizing the importance of normalizing therapy and emotional intelligence as part of strength building.

9:06 Redefining masculinity: moving beyond traditional roles and finding new ways to be a “high value” man.

16:33 Relationship field guide for the modern man: emphasizing safety and self-awareness.

20:05 The four key components of building a healthy relationship

27:07 Importance of self-regulation and trust in building healthy relationships.

30:35 The importance of Strong model for healthy and thriving relationships.

37:15 The importance of nurturing connection in relationships and expanding the definition of pleasure beyond just sex and increasing and expanding examples of pleasure.