Swoon: Love Lessons with Julie and Gina Fantasies: Exploring a Dom/Sub Dynamic
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Aug 30, 2021 Julie and Gina dive into the realm of power exchange dynamics, answering a listener's questions about exploring a dom/sub fantasy safely. They emphasize the importance of communication and safety, especially for those new to BDSM. The hosts suggest identifying what attracts each partner to dominance or submission and exploring fantasies with openness. They recommend a gradual approach with simple experiments, focusing on aftercare and realistic expectations to ensure a positive experience.
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Work With A Trauma-Informed Sex Therapist
- If you have a trauma history, slow down and explore fantasies gradually with a sex-positive therapist who understands trauma.
- Use therapy to unpack triggers and develop safety strategies before trying power-exchange play.
Value Open Communication And Consent
- Celebrate and continue open communication about fantasies; willingness to discuss is a healthy sign in new relationships.
- Stay curious but recognize that saying no to a specific activity is acceptable and normal.
Dom/Sub Is A Wide Continuum
- Dom/sub covers a broad continuum from light roleplay to intense power exchange and can mean very different things to different people.
- Naming specific acts, words, and limits clarifies what you actually want and what you want to avoid.