Why? with Emma Kennedy

Why are we obsessed with being special?

Jun 25, 2025
In this engaging conversation, philosopher Alexander Douglas, author of 'Against Identity,' challenges our obsession with individualism amidst modern chaos. He questions how defining ourselves rigidly may do more harm than good. The discussion touches on the pressure to stand out, the complexities of identity shaped by societal norms, and the quest for admiration in the age of social media. Douglas advocates for a more flexible sense of self, emphasizing community and collective wellbeing over fixed identities.
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Danger of Obsession with Being Special

  • Our obsession with being special is both exhausting and potentially dangerous in modern culture.
  • Identity has become a currency online and in politics, but maybe we need to rethink who we are without labels.
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Liberation Misconstrued as Individuality

  • Many people's desire to be unique stems from painful experiences of conformity and repression.
  • The belief that liberation means conforming to our "real self" can be deceiving and harmful.
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Identity as Source of Conflict

  • Our drive to identify ourselves fuels many social problems and conflicts.
  • Passions and desires are centered around maintaining a stable sense of our identity.
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