The Tammy Peterson Podcast 100. Why Prioritizing Motherhood in the First Three Years Matters | Erica Komisar
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Aug 5, 2024 
Erica Komisar, a seasoned clinical social worker and psychoanalyst, dives into why maternal presence during the first three years is crucial for children's emotional development. She discusses the long-term consequences of modern daycare systems and critiques societal pressures pushing mothers back to work too soon. Komisar emphasizes fostering strong maternal bonds to promote resilience and character in children. The conversation also touches on the challenges of motherhood today and the vital role of community support, underlining the importance of nurturing environments for healthy growth.
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Mothers' Biological Role
- Mothers are biologically necessary for raising mentally healthy children.
- They regulate emotions, teach social cues, and buffer stress during early brain development (0-3 years).
Childcare Alternatives
- If a mother must work, prioritize kinship bonds (father, grandparents) for childcare.
- Consider a single, consistent surrogate caregiver over daycare, especially for children under three.
Daycare's Negative Impact
- Daycare can negatively affect children under three due to high child-to-adult ratios.
- They need one-on-one nurturing, not group socialization, for emotional regulation.
