The Paul Tripp Podcast
779. What Specifically Should I Say To My Kids? | Ask Paul Tripp
Jan 18, 2025
Discover practical strategies for tackling parenting challenges through thoughtful dialogue. Paul shares insights on navigating conversations about character with kids, emphasizing self-regulation in parents. Learn how to cultivate meaningful discussions that foster reflection and understanding. Dive into the importance of asking reflective questions that encourage growth, all while applying a gospel-centered perspective to everyday parenting challenges.
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Quick takeaways
- Parents should manage their own emotions and engage children through open-ended questions to foster reflection on their behavior.
- Meaningful conversations about character, confession, and the gospel are essential for children's long-term moral development and spiritual growth.
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Addressing Children's Lack of Character
When encountering a situation where children exhibit unloving behavior, it's crucial for parents to first manage their own emotions before addressing the issue. Instead of reacting with judgment or threats, parents should ask open-ended questions that encourage children to reflect on their actions and feelings. This approach allows the children to articulate their thoughts, enabling a deeper understanding of their behavior and motivations. For instance, asking questions like 'What were you thinking and feeling as it was happening?' can provide insight into the emotional drivers behind their actions.
