Your Move with Andy Stanley Podcast How to Start Repairing Broken Relationships, Part 2 - "Back to You"
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Jan 31, 2025 Rebuilding broken relationships can feel daunting, but avoiding revenge is crucial. Emphasizing a love-centered approach, the discussion critiques harmful tactics like guilt and control. It highlights the importance of personal responsibility, urging forgiveness and empathy. Instead of retaliating, listeners are encouraged to prioritize connection and understanding with those who have hurt them, transforming pain into opportunities for healing.
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Andy's Biggest Regret
- Andy Stanley shares his biggest regret: trying to convince his stubborn mother.
- She simply wanted to be loved, not convinced.
Rejection in Relationships
- The "C4" approach (convince, convict, coerce, control) makes people feel rejected.
- Rejection is kryptonite to relationships, even when you are right.
Focus on No Regrets
- The goal of relationship repair is not reconciliation, but having no regrets.
- Focus on removing obstacles and making yourself emotionally accessible.