Conversation With Alanis Morissette Episode 22: Conversation with Dr. Ramani Durvasula
May 17, 2024
Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a licensed clinical psychologist and expert on narcissism, joins for a compelling discussion on the complexities of personality disorders. They explore the rising prevalence of narcissism in society and its impact on relationships. Ramani breaks down the different types of narcissism, from grandiose to malignant, emphasizing the importance of understanding and empathy. The conversation also highlights the challenges of navigating relationships with narcissistic individuals, providing insights on maintaining personal integrity and establishing healthy boundaries.
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Narcissism as a Personality Style
- Narcissism is better understood as a personality style rather than just a disorder.
- About 20% of people exhibit narcissistic traits on a spectrum from mild to severe.
Narcissism's Duality: Grandiosity and Shame
- Narcissistic behavior oscillates between grandiosity and deep shame.
- This fluctuation stems from early invalidation and trauma or overindulgence in childhood.
Temperament Influences Narcissism Development
- Certain difficult temperaments make children more vulnerable to developing narcissism.
- Environment, such as trauma or overindulgence, interacts with temperament to shape personality.