The Demartini Show How to Care for Aging Parents Without Losing Yourself - EP 322
Jan 16, 2026
Discover how to provide care for aging parents without sacrificing your own identity. The discussion covers navigating the realities of eldercare choices and the impact of finances on caregiving roles. Learn when it's wise to hire specialists versus providing care yourself. The importance of rejecting external guilt and staying true to your values is emphasized. There's a focus on being honest about your limits and priorities, encouraging meaningful interactions instead of feeling overwhelmed.
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Income And Values Shape Eldercare Options
- Many families face eldercare because parents often didn't plan or save sufficiently.
- Your ability to respond depends heavily on your income, values and preparation.
Hire Help For Tasks You Don't Do Well
- Hire qualified specialists to handle tasks you neither enjoy nor are skilled at.
- Spend your time offering emotional presence and meaningful interaction instead of doing everything yourself.
Outsource When It Saves You Time And Energy
- If you can earn more than the cost of hired help, outsource to relieve your burden.
- Use hired caregivers to avoid frustration and preserve your energy for higher-value interactions.