The Man Who “Saved Metallica” — Phil Towle on Becoming the Front Man of Your Own Dreams

Welcome to the first episode of the Conscious Creators Show; where through intimate and insightful interviews with authors, actors, musicians, entrepreneurs and other podcasters, you'll learn tools and tactics to 10x your creativity and strategies to grow and monetize your audience.

On today’s episode, we have Phil Towle, a renowned performance coach who has worked with famous musicians and athletes such as Metallica, Dick Vermeil (Superbowl Winning Coach of St. Louis Rams), Tom Morello (Rage Against the Machine) and many more.

Phil shares how he finds fulfillment in helping others become the frontman of their own dreams. Learn how Phil moved past egoic motivations to find his true calling and how we can make serving others a priority that will help us connect with our highest selves.

 

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Episode Highlights: 

• This episode begins with lyrics from one of Phil's songs, titled “Hitchin’ a Ride”.
• “Hitchin’ a Ride” meant he knew he wanted to get to a place beyond where he currently was. It functioned as a compass.
• Phil had a long, rich career in psychotherapy and was on the verge of making transitions into using psychology to help people achieve their highest potential at the time he wrote the lyrics to “Hitchin’ a Ride”.
• Everything that he did, in earthly terms successful or failure, has been part of getting to where he is now.
• Phil knew he was meant to accomplish something special but didn't know what it was yet. 
• He learned that where he was then was not about being a frontman, but about helping other people become the frontman of their dreams.
• When his ego was pushing him to self-centeredness, he didn't feel comfortable.
• The best part of humanity is in serving the greater good.
• Trial and error will help us see when discomfort is healthy and when it is not.
• Phil defines a crisis as a self-inspired intervention or interruption in a direction you’re heading that needs to be re-evaluated.
• A crisis can be a gift because it can help you refocus.
• People generally come to Phil because they're stuck or there's something they feel uncomfortable about.
• Even people at the top of their game face discomfort, they just choose to take action.
• The best part of emulating someone else is seeing that they've found a way to achieve at a high level in their profession.
• Trying to be who you are not or sacrificing your dreams creates mental illness.
• When we allow fear to decide our dreams for us, we can feel depressed.
• Every famous person that we know carries unresolved fears.
• Many times they will ride the wave of external validation at the expense of their own personality.
• Please pay attention to your own personality and the things that may get in the way of your own ambition. 
• Consider doing some of the inner work now.
• External validation can never replace self-worth.
• When you're getting external validation it can be hard to look inward.
• When the pain of avoiding our personality hurts enough then we start paying attention.
• There are some individuals that can teach us that there's a sensible way to go about success.
• Tragic figures teach us in their own way to pay attention.
• You can ask what needs to change. Transformation is within our grasp if we can be a little more patient and a little more self-reflective.
• Fame has become an outcome rather than a tool.
• We don’t understand fame until we get there.
• Fame in itself as an end-game is an illusion. There's a lot that gets sacrificed.
• There are many people who have taken their responsibility as someone who is famous to start projects that serve humanity.
• There is an intrinsic part of every one of you that understands that part of our spiritual DNA is to serve our sisters and brothers.
• Phil challenges you to follow up and write to Sachit about how listening to this episode inspired you to serve someone. (Email Sachit)
• The objective of the Conscious Creators Show is to share stories so people can learn from them.
• There's a common thread of people wanting to be part of a cause.
• There's no solo act that achieves anything of greatness on its own.
• Self-serving becomes more important when we're afraid.
• Service is an automatic priority when we want to improve relationships. We must acknowledge what our part in it is.
• With bands, Phil is most happy that before every concert and public appearance they come together in prayer. They need to have a moment before they go on stage that signals togetherness.
• When we give grace to our relationships, when we give gratitude to our relationships, in that moment of time we are speaking the truth about ourselves, our love for one another, and the human beings that we come in contact with.
• Conflicts in our relationships are projections of our own fears and insecurities.
• As creators, we face conflict about whether to go for something or not.
• Phil feels good that he's taken risks even when he has failed.
• Many of the big things he's done he wasn't necessarily ready for.
• You have to decide for you when it's a red light, a green light, or a yellow light.
• Be prepared for a yes and know what your motives are when you offer to help.

 

3 Key Takeaways:

1.   Everyone carries unresolved fears. Through patience and introspection, we can work through aspects of our personality that get in the way of our ambition.
2.   Making serving others a priority will help us connect to our inner being and our highest selves.
3.   You can choose to feel good about the risks you’ve taken even when you fail. 

 

Tweetable Quotes:

“When I am helping other people fulfill themselves, that's where my satisfaction and fulfillment and calling is.” – Phil Towle

“It's trying hard to be who we're not or sacrificing our dreams, whatever those dreams are, that in some ways creates mental illness.” – Phil Towle

"The people that have achieved at the highest level, that I've worked with, are no different than anybody else. Perhaps we could say they did not allow their fears to become more important than their dreams." – Phil Towle

“External validation can never replace self-worth.” – Phil Towle

“Collaboration has to become more important than self-serving.” – Phil Towle

 

Resources Mentioned:

• Phil Towle Website, LinkedIn

 

Actions: 

1. Subscribe to the show on Apple Podcasts or on your favorite podcast app and let us know what you think by leaving a rating and a review.
2. Thank our guest and let them know what you thought of today’s episode — email Sachit and he’ll share it with Phil.
3. Head on over to Creators.Show to get new episodes, exclusive guides like our guide on “How to Connect With Busy Influencers”, partner deals and additional bonuses.