14: Courage series - Vulnerability sounds to others like truth and feels to us like courage
Aug 5, 2019
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This podcast explores the courage it takes to show vulnerability and how being authentic can lead to deeper connections. By sharing imperfections and embracing honesty, trust can be built in workplace relationships. It discusses the power of opening up about personal struggles and the impact of sharing mistakes in team dynamics.
Courage involves showing vulnerability rather than hiding imperfections to build trust in relationships.
Creating a culture where people can openly discuss mistakes fosters excellence and trust in teams.
Deep dives
The Courage of Vulnerability
The podcast discusses the importance of vulnerability in our lives and the courage it takes to embrace it. Being vulnerable involves showing our imperfections and sharing personal experiences that we may be ashamed of. By being vulnerable, we build trust and strengthen relationships with others, both in professional and personal contexts. The speaker stresses the value of starting with people we trust and gradually opening up to them, rather than sharing vulnerability with a wide audience. The podcast encourages listeners to practice openness and vulnerability, such as admitting mistakes, saying 'I don't know,' or seeking help from others.
The Power of Sharing Mistakes
The podcast highlights the significance of discussing mistakes in the workplace. Many people fear failure and feel ashamed of their mistakes, leading to a culture where everyone tries to appear flawless. However, by creating an environment where people can openly share their mistakes and learn from one another, a culture of excellence can be fostered. The podcast shares a personal anecdote about someone who usually never talks about their failures, but opened up about a mistake they made, which built trust and connection with the team. The speaker suggests engaging in language like 'I don't know,' 'I made a mistake,' or 'Can you help me with this?' to initiate conversations that foster vulnerability and allow for growth and collaboration.
Sometimes being courageous is not about doing something different, but rather about revealing something about yourself you have previously felt you had to keep hidden. By keeping up appearances, portraying a shinier image of yourself than you feel inside, you gradually close yourself off from others and reduce their trust in you. This episode covers the courage that it takes to show some vulnerability.