Episode 108: Intentional Fatherhood (Mark D. Ogletree)
Jul 15, 2024
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Professor Mark D. Ogletree discusses intentional fatherhood, drawing from Alma's teachings to his sons in the Book of Mormon. He highlights tailored parental guidance, the power of parental testimony, and the impact of living prophets on personal and teaching life.
Father's presence leads to positive outcomes for children, such as better academic performance and emotional stability.
Alma's intentional fatherhood exemplifies personalized parenting through tailored teachings and spiritual guidance for children.
Scholars can integrate academic pursuits with spiritual insights, aligning knowledge with faith for personal growth.
Deep dives
The Impact of Fatherhood on Children's Behavior and Development
Having a stable father in the home brings numerous benefits, as highlighted in research findings. Close relationships with father figures lead to a decrease in high-risk behaviors, delayed sexual activity, higher likelihood of high-paying jobs, and healthier relationships in adulthood. Children with involved fathers exhibit higher IQs, fewer psychological problems, and better mental health, leading to improved school performance and emotional stability.
The Profound Challenge of Fatherlessness in American Society
Fatherlessness, a prevalent issue in the United States, has profound implications for children's outcomes. Growing up in fatherless homes increases the likelihood of behavioral disorders, academic struggles, expulsion from school, drug use, and other negative consequences. The absence of engaged fathers can also impact children negatively, emphasizing the importance of father involvement in shaping children's lives.
Alma's Exemplary Fatherhood and Individualized Parenting
Alma's intentional fatherhood in the Book of Mormon serves as a model for personalized parenting and effective mentorship. Through individualized teachings tailored to each son's needs, Alma demonstrates the power of connecting with children on a personal level. His focused guidance on repentance, faithfulness, and lineage showcases the profound impact of parental involvement and genuine interactions in fostering familial bonds and spiritual growth.
The Importance of Testifying of Gospel Truths as Parents
Testifying of the truthfulness of gospel principles and family heritage plays a crucial role in nurturing children's faith and identity. Sharing personal testimonies and ancestral stories instills resilience, strengthens familial bonds, and cultivates a sense of divine lineage. By affirming children's potential and spiritual connections, parents can empower and inspire their children to embrace their heritage and pursue a path of faith and righteousness.
The Role of Scholarly Research Aligned with Discipleship
Balancing scholarly research with discipleship entails aligning academic pursuits with the teachings of living prophets and foundational gospel principles. By filtering academic knowledge through the lens of faith, scholars can maintain spiritual integrity and enhance their understanding of truth. Embracing the guidance of living prophets and infusing scholarly endeavors with spiritual insights fosters a harmonious relationship between academia and discipleship, guiding individuals toward greater knowledge, faith, and personal growth.
Ancient and latter-day prophets have often testified of the importance of gospel-centered parenting. King Benjamin once taught, “But ye will teach them to walk in the ways of truth and soberness; ye will teach them to love one another, and to serve one another” (Mosiah 4:15). President Russell M. Nelson has exclaimed, “No other work transcends that of righteous, intentional parenting!” In this episode Dr. Mark D. Ogletree, professor of Church history and doctrine, discusses a critical branch in gospel-centered parenting: intentional fatherhood. Professor Ogletree outlines the characteristics and attributes of intentional fatherhood—principles that apply to all parents and mentors—by examining Alma’s counsel with Helaman, Shiblon, and Corianton. Alma exemplifies a pattern of intentional behaviors as he testifies of the Savior and the truthfulness of the gospel, teaches his sons their ancestry, sets a righteous example and leaves the past behind him, offers individual counsel and praise to each son, calls his children to repentance, and teaches them true doctrine. Modern parents will be inspired on how to teach, direct, and interact with their children as they study the teachings of Alma 36–42.