Clock In with Emily Durham How to stand up for yourself at work without being an asshole (or getting fired)
Dec 17, 2025
Learn how to stand up for yourself at work without losing respect or trust. Discover the importance of tact in communication, especially for career advancement. Understand the fears associated with speaking up and how reframing advocacy can empower you. Get practical advice on delivering tough messages with structure and clarity. Master strategies for setting boundaries and addressing difficult coworkers while preserving relationships. It's all about balancing assertiveness with diplomacy!
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Tact Predicts Career Trajectory
- Tact is a core differentiator between people who rise to senior leadership and those who stagnate.
- Emily Durham observed that executives who advance handle difficult conversations with clarity and composure.
Silence Harms Visibility
- Staying silent often harms careers more than a single awkward conversation.
- Emily Durham argues invisibility leads to being passed over for promotions and opportunities.
Follow The TACT Framework
- Use the TACT framework: Timing, Action-based, Clear, then ask for Their perspective.
- Schedule one-on-one time and avoid addressing big issues publicly or while emotional.