Eliminating Stress and Toxic Patterns in Marriages: A Personalized Approach

In this first episode of Season 2, Tanner provides tailored support for high-achieving women, helping them bridge the gap between professional success and personal fulfillment through a unique transformation journey. This journey includes building a supportive community where women can share experiences and gain clarity and wisdom in their relationships. Dr. Tanner Wallace's 19-week "Marriage is Hard" podcast series aims to empower women by providing educational insights and encouraging personal growth, leveraging past challenges as sources of motivation. This 19-week program focuses on eliminating stress and toxic patterns in marriages, offering customized learning activities for personal relationship enhancement.  Tanner emphasizes the importance of creating "love houses"—safe, fulfilling spaces within marriages—and encourage self-reflection and intentional growth for high-achieving women seeking healthier partnerships.

In today's fast-paced world, high-achieving women often find themselves excelling in their careers and personal pursuits, yet they may encounter challenges in achieving fulfillment within their intimate relationships. Tanner offers a unique perspective on this by providing tailored support that bridges the often-encountered gap between professional success and personal contentment. Her insights are shaped by the understanding that these women, despite their numerous accomplishments like choosing their partners, earning advanced degrees, and building successful careers, can still struggle in their personal lives. Tanner emphasizes that their high level of competence in professional settings should be mirrored in their personal relationships, and she aims to guide them through a transformation journey that harnesses past challenges as sources of motivation. By building a community of empowered women who embrace connection and intentional growth, Tanner hopes to foster environments where strong, loving relationships can thrive.

00:00:01 - High Achieving Women Support

Tanner highlights the exclusive support tailored for high achieving women, acknowledging their professional competence but recognizing the personal struggles they may face. The transformation journey she offers is a gifted and talented version of marriage support designed to bridge the gap between professional success and personal fulfillment. Through her understanding of the unique challenges high achieving women encounter, Tanner aims to guide them in building strong foundations personally while excelling professionally. By prioritizing high-level coaching and encouraging commitment to the journey, Tanner empowers these women to overcome past failures and struggles, using them as a source of wisdom and motivation for transformative growth.

00:00:45 - High Achieving Women Community

Tanner aims to build a community of empowered, high-achieving women who support each other through a transformation journey. Tanner emphasizes the importance of creating a Love House filled with love, connection, and belonging, highlighting the significance of well-being in one's primary partnership. This exclusive journey for high-achieving women focuses on moving from confusion to clarity, guided by Tanner's personalized approach tailored to individuals who excel professionally but struggle personally. Through relationship coaching, Tanner aims to help women achieve their desired love house life by leveraging past failures as a source of wisdom and motivation.

00:03:10 - Educational Series on Marriage

Dr. Tanner Wallace has launched the Marriage is Hard podcast platform as a 19-week educational series for high achieving women looking to improve their marriages. By sharing her personal experiences and educational background, Dr. Wallace aims to help women overcome relationship challenges and build fulfilling relationships. She encourages listeners to join the Instagram community @cptsdmedicine, follow the content, and subscribe to the podcast for weekly transformational episodes. Dr. Wallace's dedication to empowering women to prioritize their well-being and relationships highlights the importance of creating a supportive network to navigate the complexities of marriage.

00:15:52 - Transformation Journey

Tanner introduces a 19-week Transformation Journey program focused on eliminating the root causes of destructive stress and toxic fight patterns within marriages. The program offers scaffolded learning activities to provide participants with a customized knowledge base for daily application. Participants gain clarity and wisdom about their relationships, aiming to make informed decisions and improve their marriages. The program targets high-achieving individuals looking to transform their personal lives and create healthier partnerships.

00:22:27 - Intimate Relationship Coaching

Tanner highlights the importance of intimate relationship coaching for high achieving women, emphasizing the need to build Love Houses and connection in their marriages. She acknowledges the hard work these women have put in various aspects of their lives but points out that their intimate relationships may be the one area they struggle with. Tanner offers a transformation journey tailored specifically for high achieving women, providing them with the tools and support needed to navigate their relationships successfully. By committing to the 19-week journey, these women can gain clarity, wisdom, and ultimately, create the love-filled connections they desire.

00:40:01 - Preparation for Transformation Journey

Tanner emphasizes the importance of preparations and slowing down to create space and time for embracing the transformation journey. In episode two of the podcast, Tanner encourages listeners to engage in self-reflection and journaling. Listeners are instructed to document their journey through colors and selfies, while also starting a journal to explore confusion within their marriages. By providing prompts and guidance, Tanner sets the stage for a transformative experience, highlighting the value of introspection and personal growth in building fulfilling relationships and well-being. Participants are urged to invest in themselves and their journey towards clarity and wisdom in their marriages.

Actionable Take Aways:

Prioritize high-level coaching for personal and professional growth

- Encourage commitment to the transformation journey

- Leverage past failures as a source of wisdom and motivation

- Create a supportive network to navigate the complexities of marriage

- Engage in self-reflection and journaling for personal growth

- Invest in the journey towards clarity and wisdom in relationships