Psychology In Seattle Podcast

A Psychopath Scammed Us

Jul 28, 2025
In a captivating conversation, Chris Huber, a childhood friend of Kirk Honda, shares a jaw-dropping story about a charming psychopath named Sam who scammed them both. They delve into Sam's charismatic yet deceptive behavior, his manipulative tactics, and the emotional fallout of misplaced trust. Chris reflects on how the experience reshaped his views on friendship and vulnerability. The duo also discusses the painful moments of realization, highlighting the complexities of human connection in the face of betrayal.
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ANECDOTE

The Eerie Fishing Bond

  • Chris Huber recounts meeting Sam at a campsite and catching 50 fish in a day, an experience that bonded them.
  • Sam impressed by sharing fishing spots and cooking skills, which built trust and initiated their friendship.
INSIGHT

Group Wariness and Defense

  • The close-knit friend group was initially wary of Sam, seeing him as an outsider or "Pizza Hut buddy".
  • This suspicion primed others to defend Sam, impacting group dynamics and trust.
ANECDOTE

Compassionate Support Turns Costly

  • After learning Sam had terminal cancer, Chris and friends took him to Vegas for a last hurrah and welcomed him into their homes.
  • Despite Lita's misgivings, Chris gave Sam a key to their condo and supported him during treatment, showing compassion but setting the stage for betrayal.
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