TRIGGERnometry The Dark Side of Dating Apps - James Bloodworth
Jun 6, 2022
James Bloodworth, a journalist and author specializing in the modern dating economy, discusses the profound impact of dating apps on relationships. He critiques mainstream dating advice for its superficiality and examines how technology shapes attraction and expectations. The conversation highlights the psychological toll of rejection, the 'choice paradox' affecting commitment, and the complexities of masculinity in a digital age. Bloodworth also emphasizes the importance of genuine connections and navigating the mental health challenges faced by those in the dating landscape.
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Dating Apps' Impact
- Dating apps have changed romance like social media changed politics, making interactions more adversarial.
- They shape desires and profoundly change interactions, impacting a central part of life.
Formalized Preferences
- Dating apps formalize arbitrary preferences, like height or ethnicity, potentially causing resentment.
- Author Mia Levitin noted she'd likely reject most real-life dates if they were on an app.
Rejection and Identity
- Dating apps lower the barrier to entry but increase rejection, impacting identity formation.
- Constant negative feedback loops can be detrimental, especially for young men.