Become New with John Ortberg What Every Person Wants in Any Relationship
Jan 6, 2026
Discover what every person truly desires in relationships! Dive into five vital needs that foster connection: attention, acceptance, affection, appreciation, and allowance. Hear how these elements play out in our everyday lives, from friendships to workplaces. John Ortberg highlights the profound impact of noticing those often overlooked, the hunger for belonging, and the power of gratitude. Explore how granting freedom can cultivate safe spaces for growth. Reflect on how you can make someone feel seen and valued today!
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Significance Is Found In Impact
- Human beings are born with a drive for significance that finds its deepest fulfillment in positively impacting others.
- John Ortberg argues that knowing another life is better because of you powerfully confirms your identity.
Five A's Frame Relational Health
- Psychologist David Richo identifies five relational needs that help people flourish and they all start with A.
- John Ortberg presents these five needs as a framework for healthy relationships.
Pay Real Attention
- Pay attention to people to help them discover they are persons of value.
- Be present and observant instead of distracted to meet others' need for attention.
