Become New with John Ortberg 4. Why It's Easier to Judge Other People
Jan 23, 2026
Judging others is often a natural instinct, but it usually misses the mark. A memorable parable contrasts the prideful Pharisee and the humble tax collector, revealing surprising truths about self-righteousness. Exploring the concept of 'non-condemning math,' the discussion highlights how we tend to overlook our own faults while fixating on the few we see in others. With a quirky plumbing metaphor for grace, listeners are encouraged to embrace self-examination and mercy instead of judgment, making way for spiritual growth.
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No Need For Condemnation
- Condemnation is unnecessary for those in Christ because "there is now therefore no condemnation.".
- Condemnation leaks out in how we look at others, not just in words.
Pharisee Versus Tax Collector
- John retells Jesus' parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector to show self-righteous contempt.
- The Pharisee thanks God he's not like others while the tax collector pleads for mercy.
Contempt Is A Quiet Posture
- Contempt isn't just speech; it shows up in our eyes and minds as a habitual posture.
- How we look at people can create ongoing contempt without explicit words.
