The Deep End With Lecrae Her Pastor Was Secretly Dating Her Boyfriend
Dec 12, 2025
Brenda Palmer, a pastor's kid and ministry leader, shares her unfiltered journey through faith and personal betrayal. She reveals the shocking betrayal when her pastor had an affair with her boyfriend, leading to a deep emotional crisis. Brenda discusses the importance of maintaining faith amidst church hurt and redefines singleness as a form of undivided devotion. She also emphasizes the significance of accountability in resisting temptation and cultivating intimacy with God. Plus, she gives a sneak peek of her upcoming projects in ministry and media.
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Church Failure Doesn’t Equal Divine Failure
- Brenda separates failing leaders from God, refusing to blame God for human sin.
- She argues churches must create safe spaces for leaders to confess struggles or they will hide sin and hurt the flock.
Guard Your Heart By Closing Dangerous Doors
- Be honest about your limits and avoid doors that lead to temptation by managing media, friends, and environments.
- Create accountability and ask trusted friends to call you out when you slip.
Hidden Addiction Led To Deep Depression
- Brenda describes an addiction to sexually explicit books and ensuing depression and suicidal ideation.
- She repented when she realized her actions were breaking her Father's heart and sought recovery.