The Suzanne Venker Show 94. Red Flags & Non-Negotiables: Things to Consider While Dating
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Apr 25, 2021 Discover the essential red flags to watch for while dating. Learn why having a job and purpose is crucial, and find out if your partner is too close to their mother. Discuss the impact of feminist views on relationships and why shared values are vital. Explore the implications of coming from divorced families and the importance of establishing your non-negotiables. Ultimately, successful love requires clarity on what you both want from life and relationships.
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Look for Purpose and Plan
- Do not date or marry a man who lacks a job, purpose, or plan in life.
- Waiting for him to 'figure it out' later leads to prolonged struggles and potential relationship failure.
Suzanne’s Timing Matters
- Suzanne met her husband after he had found his professional footing, not during earlier career uncertainty.
- She wouldn’t have dated him during his unstable phase because both wanted aligned life missions.
Beware of Mama's Boys
- Avoid men who can't separate from their mother or need her approval constantly.
- Prioritize partners who can establish independence to prevent lifelong conflicts.