Reasonable Faith Podcast Question of the Week #970: Starting a Family and Graduate Studies
Jan 8, 2026
This discussion dives into the intricate balance of starting a family while pursuing graduate studies. Insights reveal the benefits of waiting to have children for flexibility. The importance of prioritizing a wife’s desires is highlighted to avoid potential resentment. Craig shares how spiritual practices like nightly Bible readings can enrich family life. Interestingly, he notes that many find increased productivity after having children by restructuring their time effectively. The conversation wraps up with a heartfelt prayer for guidance in harmonizing studies and family.
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Delaying Parenthood During Grad School
- William Lane Craig and his wife delayed having children until after his graduate studies, and their daughter Charity was born on their 10th anniversary.
- Waiting gave them flexibility during doctoral work and helped them build their marriage before parenthood.
Prioritize Your Spouse's Timing
- If your wife wants children now, do not deny her that privilege because refusing can foster long-lasting resentment.
- Prioritize your marital relationship over academic success and accept academic consequences if necessary.
Lead Evening Devotions With Children
- Lead family spiritual formation by reading to children after supper and praying before evening activities.
- Take active leadership so children don't form a primarily feminine image of Christianity.