

R.A. Villanueva — Life Drawing
8 snips Dec 7, 2020
R.A. Villanueva, an acclaimed poet and author of 'Reliquaria', explores profound themes of trust and vulnerability in intimate relationships. He reflects on his wife's life-drawing class, where his feelings of jealousy and self-consciousness transform into a journey of consent and reciprocity. The conversation navigates the delicate balance between intimacy and insecurity, illustrating how art can deepen connections and foster emotional growth.
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Intimacy, Vulnerability, and Trust in Marriage
- The poem "Life Drawing" explores intimacy, anxiety, vulnerability, and trust within a marriage.
- It raises questions about jealousy, the gaze, and consent in the context of bodies.
The Wife's Multifaceted Identity
- The poem's focus shifts between the wife as "my wife," "she," and "an artist."
- This highlights her multifaceted identity and her comfort in discussing the male models.
Functional vs. Intimate Nakedness
- The poem contrasts the functional nakedness of the life drawing class with the intimate nakedness between spouses.
- The poet's anxiety stems from not sharing the artistic intimacy his wife has with the model.